I Need Help Deciding What Career to Choose Because I Don't Want to Live With My Parents Forever!

Are you a high school senior who is staring graduationlearning all you can about yourself through these
in the face and you still don't have a clue as to whatcareer resources. Take a ton of notes. Schedule
you want to do with the rest of your life?another meeting with your parents and show them
Take a deep breath. This is not as hard as it seems. Ieverything you've learned. If you have another trusted
am a mom who has helped her own seniors navigateadult in your life, talk with him or her about what you're
the shark-infested career waters and listened to theirlearning about yourself, too.
own screams of "I need help deciding what career to3. You'll start to see a picture emerge.
choose!"What career fields have popped up from your
Here are some steps you can take that will make youresearch? You should have a handful by now. Go
feel much, much better.back to your guidance counselor and ask where you
1. Talk to your parents.can find accurate information about each of these
Especially if you haven't already. Try to stay calm andcareer fields. There is also a lot of information available
focused during this conversation. Here's what youonline through trade journals and government labor
need to remember about your parents. They really,departments. If you can, talk to someone who is
really, really want you to succeed. And they arealready working in the careers you are researching.
probably willing to help you in a variety of ways, butDig, dig, dig and find out all you can about the careers
they need to hear from you, too.that are interesting to you. How much do they pay?
So let them know that you are having a tough timeWhere can you find them (do you want to live in a city
deciding on career ideas. Tell them you are going to door rural area?)? What kind of educational requirements
some serious research over the next few weeks todo they have? You get the picture.
try and get a clearer picture of what path you should4. The money.
take. Ask them for any insight they can give you as toIf you are in the US, there are a tremendous amount
what they think would be a good fit for you.of financial aid programs available to help you attend
Then listen. Very carefully.college. Since you're already a senior, there's probably
Here's the deal. Your folks have lived with you a longno time left to improve your grades or take the
time. Probably longer than anyone else. They havecourses that you now know you'll need in college.
unique insights into your character and abilities. YouSimply learn from that lesson that next time it will
need these insights.make things easier for you if you look ahead a bit,
They probably are a bit biased, too. They want themake a plan and be committed. After all, you are
best for you; the trick is their ideas about what's bestinvesting in yourself!
and your ideas about what's best for you may notAgain, talk to your parents and your guidance
match exactly. That's the part where you need tocounselor about money for college. Most college
stay calm. Think of this as a fact-gathering mission. Bestudents pay for their education through a combination
objective. Take notes (that will impress your folks, trustof cash, loans, scholarships, work study and part time
me). Then keep your end of the bargain by rolling upjobs. You can, too.
your sleeves and doing some serious careerGo to places like to research scholarships that would
research...immediately.be appropriate for you. Your parents will probably
2. Talk to your school guidance counselor.have to fill out the FAFSA. That is simply a financial aid
Most high schools these days are a wealth ofform that the US government provides to standardize
resources for your career research. Think about it.the scholarship process. Your folks will need to fill it out
Your high school's mission, on some level, is to prepareeven if they believe that you are not eligible for any
you to be a productive adult in society. That meansneed based college money. The FAFSA gets used to
career research is one of their primary tasks!determine more than just that, trust me! Your guidance
Take advantage of everything your guidancecounselor can fill you in on the details.
counselor can offer you career-wise. Things like...Feeling better yet? The sooner you get started on this
* Career aptitude tests and assessmentsprocess, the sooner you will be looking forward to
* Personality testinggraduation with great confidence. Remember, "I need
* Meetings with college representativeshelp deciding what career to choose" is actually one of
* Financial aid informationthe smartest things you can say right now. Saying that
* Vocational job training opportunitiesout loud can get you started on the path to your
* Career informationwonderful future.
Don't be shy and ask lots of questions. Dive right intoGo for it!