Attitude Determines Your Altitude

A young single mother can achieve far greater- Courage to take personal responsibility for her own
success when she focuses on her your attitude.  It ischoices
important to note that although education is important itLet's be real.  A young single mother is a stereotype
is not the most important ingredient for success.in this society and considered a social burden.
While you will face many obstacles to successfullyEstimates suggest 75% of teenage single mothers
parent your child, remembering that it's your attitude notend up on welfare within five years after the birth of
your aptitude that determines your attitude in life is atheir child. Getting public assistance is humiliating. 
very important thing to remember. Trying to achieveDiscrimination in the workplace against young single
self-sufficiency, give your child the attention theymothers is common. A young single mother's attitude in
deserve and taking care of yourself is far more thanthese circumstances is to have faith. Keep your mind
the average person ever has to consider alone.open to the possibilities and realize any situation is only
This delicate balancing act when a young single mothertemporary.
is a teenager who hasn't even completed high schoolThe right attitude for a young single mother is staying
yet can be even more confusing. Minimal education inpower and confidence. Find creative ways to manage
a society that demands higher education as an entrymotherly responsibilities while planning for the future of
into higher paying jobs can be discouraging.  But anythe family.  If it's to be it is up to you.  No one else
young single mother should remember there are onlycan or will do it for you.
two choices, do or do not.  Do not allow yourself toThis ability to plan for the future requires optimism.
get caught in the poverty mentality just because youDepression is 40% greater for single mothers
didn't finish high school or attend college.  Many of thecompared to their married counterparts.  Avoid being
most successful people in our society didn't either.a statistic by planning for your future.  Set goals for
Your situation makes you unique.  The only way outyour education and job training to better your
for a young single mother is having the right attitude.circumstances.
Being a single mother in an unforgiving society isMaintain a courageous attitude.  Continue to work
difficult.  Success comes with applying the hardhard and conquer those obstacles that are sure to
earned knowledge you have about life's situations. cross your path.  Every step forward may be loaded
You fight the battle everyday so you know how towith hazards and attempt to knock you back two
win.paces. The only way to succeed, however, is to keep
A Young single mother with the right attitudemoving forward, building on the last set back and boldly
possesses some unique traits:looking towards the future with confidence and
- A thick skin with an open mind when it comes to therenewed self-esteem.  As a young single mother you
welfare of her familyhave skills and abilities others could never know
- Determination, persistence, and perseverancewithout your experience.  Use them to become a
- Set goals and follow through while adjusting tofuture success for yourself and your children one day
uncertaintiesat a time.